Just Thoughts

You are not doing anything wrong. You are not being punished. Nothing is being held back from you. What is happening is about timing, your own growth, and the unfolding of your future. The right time will come for you to meet your person. Until then, your only job is to focus on yourself, your own energy, and stepping into the fullest version of who you are.

Here’s the key:

·        The person you are right now is growing into the person who is ready for your future partner.

·        Your future partner is growing into the person who is ready for you.

·        The way to prepare for that is to fully embrace who you are today.

·        If you are not fully living as your true self, you will look for completion in someone else. This is not the kind of relationship you truly want.

·        The key to becoming the person who is ready for the relationship you want is to embrace your full self.

If you are not fully embracing who you are, your future partner will not recognize you, and you won’t recognize them either. The way to become aligned with the big love you want is to connect with, align with, and live as the true expression of your energy.

This applies to everything you want. The most powerful way to reach your goals is to understand what your energy feels like and live from that place.

On Relationships

There is a new type of relationship forming. It is like a wave rising under the surface. It has been building for some time, and in recent years, many long-term relationships have ended. People are confused about how they could have been so happy for so long, only to feel different now. But more and more, people are realizing that they want something more—something deeper, built on wholeness. Something they did not know existed before.

You might fear that what you long for is impossible.

It is possible.

This new wave of relationships has been growing for a while and is now coming to life. Look around, and you will see it. People are meeting, connecting, and forming relationships based on wholeness. This type of relationship will become more and more common in the coming months.

On Building a Business with Ease

When people come to me for help with business, they are not usually looking for traditional business strategies. There are many people better suited for that. Instead, they want to find a way to bring their energy into the world, make money, and feel aligned with their deeper self at the same time.

Depending on where someone is on their journey—whether they are passive or active, whether they want to be seen, or their relationship with money—the approach varies. Sometimes it feels like strategy. Other times it is about working through difficult things. But at times, it is just this powerful, focused energy that is incredibly strong. This energy can even lay out a complete business plan, which is amazing.

Here’s what I learned:

There is a difference between receiving what you want passively and actively creating it. When you are passive, it feels like you are behind a veil, unable to move forward without great effort. There is an underlying belief that if you are good enough, the universe or a higher power will reward you. From this perspective, taking action always feels like hard work.

But when you are actively receptive, everything changes. You move through the world in a way that doesn’t drain you. The difference is in perspective.

When you are passive, you believe someone else holds the power and that you need to prove yourself to receive what you want.

When you are active, you realize you are an essential part of the creation process. Your desires, will, and intentions bring your goals closer to you. This does not mean forcing things to happen. It means trusting in your ability to create what you want and taking the right action when inspiration strikes.

One way feels like you have to be worthy to receive. The other feels like you know that you are already capable of making it happen.

On Moving Towards What You Want

Think about the moment you realized you wanted something. There was a moment when you just knew it was meant for you, right? Before you even started thinking about how to make it happen, you felt the rightness of it. Remember how simple and easy that feeling was? Stay with that feeling. Keep returning to those feelings of rightness. Don’t rush into plans or goals, because that will pull you out of the feeling and into stress and doubt.

When you start thinking about “how” to make things happen, the fear creeps in. You start to feel like it’s too big, too difficult, and too impossible. That fear creates resistance, and the more you push, the harder it gets.

Instead, go back to that feeling of rightness.

That feeling is the moment when your present self aligns with your future self. It is the start of something new.

What you want also wants you. That’s what the feeling of rightness means: it is inevitable.

So, stay in that small, cozy feeling of excitement and unfoldment. Let things naturally come together. Trust that the click you felt means it is going to happen, and you don’t need to force it. Enjoy the process.

On Moving Through Hard Times

We are always with you—part of your energy, your larger and infinite self. When you feel upset, it may seem like we have abandoned you. But we have never left. We are always here, but you cannot hear or feel us if you are turned away from us.

It is not our job to come and pull you out of the chaos.

We are like a peaceful river of energy, flowing with the unfolding of the universe. This river is vast, and it underlies everything.

Sometimes, you find yourself in fast-moving, rocky waters, feeling upset and lost. You may ask us to come and rescue you, but we do not leave the peaceful river. We are the river. It is not our job to take you out of the chaos; it is your job to turn toward us.

The more intense the turbulence, the harder it is to swim back to peace. But once you do it once, you will know you can do it again and again.

The more you turn toward the peaceful energy, the easier it becomes to stay connected.

On Self-Growth and the Spiritual Path

It is time to put your tools down. All that you have learned has brought you this far, but now you are almost at the top of the mountain. None of the tools you have will help you take the final steps.

You do not need new tools.

You cannot reach the top of the mountain while carrying all your tools. You need to lay them down. They got you this far, but they cannot carry you the last few steps. Those steps must be taken without tools—just open hands and an open heart.

At some point, you must stop working on yourself and start living.

You can always pick up those tools again when needed.

But for now, just live.